Category: Daily Missives

  • June 23, 2026

    I don’t ever want to forget how I felt when I finally stopped using drugs and alcohol. 

    When I feel lazy and want to slack-off on my recovery program, it is a reminder of what awaits me.

    I am only given a daily reprieve, contingent upon the maintenance of my spiritual condition.

    It takes daily practice. It doesn’t require perfection.

    Failing to seek God always will cause me to slide back towards the person I used to be.

     

    God, please help me to be ok today. Thank You. Amen.

  • June 22, 2026

    Everyone finds their way. We all find what works for us and try to keep doing that, expecting the same results.

    When the results are no longer what we expect, we should change course. Some of us find it too hard or refuse to do that.

    If what I’m doing no longer works for me, perhaps I should do what seems to work for others who are getting better results.

    If I rely solely upon myself, I am doomed. If I rely upon God, there is still hope for me.

     

    God, please help me to be ok today. Thank You. Amen.

  • June 21, 2026

    Happy Father’s Day.

    I have been Blessed with three children. They are the brightest lights in my life.

    They are gifts from God. I have learned more from them than they ever have learned from me.

    Becoming a father didn’t take a whole lot of skill. It just comes naturally.

    Becoming a “good” father takes effort. It requires that I show up, show patience, and try my best.

    “Dad” is a humbling title which I carry proudly.

    For me, every day is Father’s Day.

     

    God, please help me to be ok today. Thank You. Amen.

  • June 20, 2026

    I have had more difficult times in my life after I got sober than before I got sober.

    I think that’s just the way life goes – it’s not always smooth sailing.

    I have never traveled this road alone. God has put people into my path to help me get through the tough times and celebrate the good times.

    Some people I’ll never forget. 

    Today is the anniversary of the passing of my dear friend Raymond F. He changed my life forever.

    Thank God for Alcoholics Anonymous.

    Thank God for God.

     

    God, please help me to be ok today. Thank You. Amen.

  • June 19, 2026

    I can be led to change, but I still have to do the work. If I don’t put in the effort to change my old ways, I’m still the same person exercising the same old character defects.

    I am the one who primarily benefits from the change. Initially it may feel punishing, but it is not punishment.

    It is a unique opportunity to correct the course of my journey.

    Faith can move mountains, but I have to bring a shovel. No one is going to do it for me.

     

    God, please help me to be ok today. Thank You. Amen.

  • June 18, 2026

    Feelings are not permanent. Often, the way I feel is directly linked to my perspective.

    It’s easy to feel happy when good things are happening. It’s not so easy to feel happy when things are not so good.

    If I believe that there is a gift in everything and that God intends for me to be happy, being happy is a matter of looking to God to see the gift when it’s not so obvious.

    If I try to live happy today, I might get to live a happy life.

     

    God, please help me to be ok today. Thank You. Amen.

  • June 17, 2026

    “Well, at least I’m not drinking.”

    The effect of my alcoholism is not limited to my substance abuse. It affects how I think, feel, and act.

    So, if I try to pass off bad behavior as acceptable because I’m not using, it points to the unmanageable attributes of my disease and my life.

    If I don’t change, I am doomed to pick up again.

    If I don’t rely upon God, I cannot change.

     

    God, please help me to be ok today. Thank You. Amen.

  • June 16, 2026

    Rarely does help appear at my doorstep without my asking for it. It seems that other people can’t read my mind just as I cannot read theirs. I must ask for help.

    When help does come, it doesn’t always sound or look like I expected. Sometimes I don’t even recognize it.

    Sometimes helping someone else brings me the help I need.

    When I seek God’s Help, He always delivers exactly what I need.

     

    God, please help me to be ok today. Thank You. Amen.

  • June 15, 2026

    My anxiety usually comes out before my reality. My fears always come out before my anxiety.

    Recognizing my fears when I am starting to get anxious allows me to put my fears in their right place – in God’s Hands.

    God will help me deal with my reality when it comes – one moment at a time.

     

    God, please help me to be ok today. Thank You. Amen.

  • June 14, 2026

    I can’t tell what’s going on with someone’s soul just by appearances. Most of us are pretty good at hiding how we feel, especially when we are in pain.

    I know that when I am disturbed, I tend to behave a little differently, a little more distracted.

    So when someone I know appears a little distant or distracted, there is a chance that they are disturbed.

    Noticing that is a Nod from God. 

    Rather than judge, I need to make myself available to show compassion and understanding.

    We are not traveling this journey single-file. We are not alone.

     

    God, please help me to be ok today. Thank You. Amen.