Category: Daily Missives

  • August 22, 2026

    We don’t always know our effect upon others when we show kindness and compassion.

    Depending upon how someone is feeling, it could be the one thing that reminds them that they matter.

    Everyone is going through something. For some, it may seem unbearable to them. They’re just not wearing a sign.

    I must remember where I have been. I must remember to pay kindness forward.

     

    God, please help me to be ok today. Thank You. Amen.

  • August 21, 2026

    I used to think that if I could control my drinking, I would be ok. That’s a serious joke.

    Anything that I need to control is already out of control. For me, it’s all or nothing.

    I had to learn the hard way, but I get it now. If I fool myself into thinking it will be different if I start drinking, I am the fool.

     

    God, please help me to be ok today. Thank You. Amen.

  • August 20, 2026

    If everyone just kept to themselves and didn’t look out for others, where would I be?

    When I was desperate, the connection with other people saved me. They knew the right way to go. I just needed to be willing to follow them.

    Right place. Right time. One person needing help. Many people willing to help.

    It has to be God.

     

    God, please help me to be ok today. Thank You. Amen.

  • August 19, 2026

    I know what it’s like to live as an alcoholic and addict. I remember the progression, the disappointments, the embarrassments, the fear, the hopelessness, the humiliation, the insanity, and the self- loathing. 

    I know what it’s like to live as a sober person. I remember the fear, the doubt, the hope, the progression, the hard work, the freedom, the joy, the moments, the Blessings, and especially the people.

    After all this time, I hope I never forget any of it.

     

    God, please help me to be ok today. Thank You. Amen.

  • August 18, 2026

    Each day I ask God to help me live a certain way.

    He always does His part.

    It’s up to me to hold up my end.

     

    God, please help me to be ok today. Thank You. Amen.

  • August 17, 2026

    I have more questions than answers when it comes to God. There are just so many things beyond my comprehension that I simply cannot explain.

    I guess the view is always different from the driver’s seat, but I’m not driving.

    So, I accept that the forces that have been directing our lives and causing so many coincidences is so great that I am not capable of understanding.

    I believe that God is that force, carrying each of us in a way that our lives may be fulfilling if we seek Him.

    I have found a practical use for my faith in God. That’s how I am sober today.

     

    God, please help me to be ok today. Thank You. Amen.

  • August 16, 2026

    When life throws difficulties my way, there is always a lesson or two to be learned. Sometimes the downstream effect isn’t noticed until long after the dust has settled.

    Sometimes the only lesson is that my difficulty was intended for the benefit of someone else.

    Sometimes it’s not all about me.

    Sometimes God uses me as an instrument in the bigger picture.

    God gets what God wants. I just have to be ok with that.

     

    God, please help me to be ok today. Thank You. Amen.

  • August 15, 2026

    Sometimes I try to help another person and things don’t work out the way I think they could have.

    When I look beyond my own disappointment, I can see God’s Will in play.

    It was God’s Will that I tried and failed. The other person’s failure is preparing them for something greater that isn’t meant to be right now.

    I’m ok. I’ll keep trying.

     

    God, please help me to be ok today. Thank You. Amen.

  • August 14, 2026

    If I had been judged and shunned when I finally asked for help, I may never have sought help again.

    Most of us stop drinking and using because we are suffering.

    We need to be shown compassion, not condemnation.

    I must always remember the compassion shown towards me and pass it on to the next person.

     

    God, please help me to be ok today. Thank You. Amen.

  • August 13, 2026

    I used to have low self-esteem, complimented with a high opinion of myself.

    My self-centeredness drove my behaviors.

    When I finally got honest with myself, I was able to see the truth.

    I had a hole in my soul in the shape of God. Seeking God fills that hole – one day at a time.

     

    God, please help me to be ok today. Thank You. Amen.